Well, someone needs to adopt or foster. It's on the government's 'Must Push' list along with blood doning - and, I hear this morning, the Dutch Reach method (of opening a car door!)
Adam is 50, not sure of Ian 's age, it's not on the website. I think that the meeting and subsequent discussions with social workers will expose their different attitudes, and may well exacerbate the cracks in the marriage.
It's very likely to be an older, somewhat damaged child, I can see Ian embracing the issues with his usual warmth, and Adam, himself rather damaged, not being able to cope.
Blimey, have we fallen out of love with the Archers I'm afraid i have. My problem is the 'Lexi' character. She plays the part of a lady from Bulgaria. I lived in BG for 5 years and she no more speaks with a BG accent than I do! She is speaking with a Russian accent. I had Russian neighbors and socialised a lot with them. The Russian accent is very hard, where as the BG one is soft. I'm very disappointed in the Archers team. They go to so much trouble to be authentic yet in this they have failed miserably.
I knew she didn't sound quite like Bulgarians I have known, but it wasn't that many, so I thought it might just be a bit different! And they went to a lot of trouble to make sure that Nick sounded East Midlands!
Fostering wouldn't be possible because they both work long, unpredictable hours. Most children placed with foster carers need someone at home all the time. Adoption of an older child is a possibility, providing extended adoption leave means one of them can be home for a significant period to provide the love and stability needed. I agree with Nannarose, the assessment and selection process will be difficult for these two. Adam's motivation to have a child is to save their marriage. How often do couple's in failing relationships have a baby (or move house) in the hope all will be magically transformed. Too often!
To those of us who have daughters we love dearly but sometimes feel like tearing our hair out when they come up with not such brilliant ideas........Be thankful you're not Pat Archer!!
Trying to remember - I don't think it was actually pre-eclampsia, but stress-related hypertension. Would stand corrected by those with better memories though!
No, please No. I agree that Kate is endlessly entertaining and can you imagine Brian's response? It might be worth it just for that.
What's going on with Justin and Lilian anybody? Has the vacancy of Mistress been filled already. Is he after Lilian's money because his has all been taken by the soon to be ex Mrs Justin.
I did wonder if Helen might have a baby for them and then Ian end up living with her and all the children as poor Adam seems as interested in kids as my DH did!!!! That said DH did adjust eventually!! Maybe Ian would! However the Kate idea and poor Brians reaction would be most entertaining!!
Oh yes merlot, that's a great summary of the many possibilities. Isn't Kate related to Adam though? If so, most unwise I;d have thought on so many levels.
Iam64 I think Kate being an Archer was a plus because Ian was going to provide the sperm, thus giving them both some genetic input. Anyway, it seems like it's not going to happen after all, thanks to Alice's diplomacy!
As for Lynda and Justin why can't the scriptwriter let some people be happy? Perhaps they're saving that for Roy by bringing Lexi back to work at Grey Gables - after all she can cook a prize winning flan (or was it a quiche?)