Lucky girl, you're right about the things that may contribute to the development of NPD. I accept you may not agree but even people with various personality problems or disorders can engage with therapy aimed at helping them recognise and modify their behaviour. Rob has many advantages in that respect. He is intelligent, organised enough to manage working life, he isn't addicted to gambling, drugs or alcohol. His therapeutic needs will have been set out in the psychological assessment, along with suggestions about how to access appropriare therapy, he can afford to buy it in, unlike the many other parents who have limited and carefully supervised contact. Over to you Mr Titchner, get a referral, engage with the therapist and leave Helen and Henry alone