Gracesgran, that's an interesting point about Henry's father being a sperm doner. I'm sure you're right that could turn some jury members against her. I live in hope that Helen and Henry in their separate ways being to talk about life at BHC. I know Pat n Tony are in a difficult position but you know what, take him away to Wales or Norfolk (devon, cornwall etc you can choose, well they can) in a cottage or caravan. Long rainy afternoons drawing and doing craft or make believe games, and he could well begin to open up. We would do long (often windy/rainy) walks, collect stones, twigs, shells and other jollies then the children when they were Henry's age would each be given a large tray and encouraged to make a world. In Ireland, there were always little people dotted about the worlds, sometimes there would be trolls under bridges - always there would be lots of talk about the world. There we go Pat and tony, get to it.