My father was a chain smoking, violent alcoholic who worked sporadically but still expected a cooked meal on the table every night. He used to beat my mother in front of us children, our lives were terrible, we were badly neglected and some of us beaten/abused. There were six of us kids at home. With the exception of one who didn't survive it all, each and every one of us has grown up to have a work ethic - we have all worked from the day we left school until we retired (some are still working not having retired yet). We have never become alcoholics, beaten each other or our children, never claimed benefits. At no point during my upbringing did I think it was normal - just horrible and frightening. I couldn't wait to get away and have done my best to avoid that sort of life for my own child and so have my brothers and sisters.
Why do people lie online are they living a fantasy or winding us up?




One of them has been assessed as special needs, so they get an extra £400 per month for that one alone. (Until Mr P started his job this week, we had £71.70 per week, and no other benefits, i.e free prescriptions etc)