Well yet again GNetters have come up trumps. I think I'll settle for a Jersey as there are more places for me to visit, more shops and I'll go on a boat trip to Sark and possibly St Malo (been there years ago)
Good idea to see if hotel has entertainment, but I'm ok about going out to a restaurant alone.
Thank you all. I'm looking at a fly, stay and drive package. 
People we do actually admire? Are there any?
Lighthearted - How long do you display Birthday Cards?
