Bingo wings

I carry all my weigh on 'top'. My arms are really really awful. I search high and low for light weight cardigans and use shawls to hide them. If it's really hot or I'm on holiday I throw caution to the wind and let them flop about but I hate it. It's when I look at old photos I can see lovely firm arms. I didn't appreciate them at the time. Looking at the old photographs I tell everyone "oh look at my lovely arms" they think I'm mad because their normally laughing at the clothes, hair, wallpaper or suchlike. Oh but they were lovely [ big big sigh]

I confess, even though I'm plus size I don't even think about it. Maybe it's because my arms are not slim anyway I don't feel I have obvious bingo wings. I practically live in short sleeved T-shirts in summer, I even dare to wear vest tops only ones with wide shoulders though.