Fear not, it comes to many of us, but we live in the age of good products. I recommend two. Both work well. I recommend buying both as they are quite different, and when you run out, go with the one that works best for you. The first is Label.M Thickening Cream, the second is TIGi Bed Head Queen For A Day. The Label.M is intended to work with heat. Specifically, a spot of blow drying. The heat activates something in it which produces nice volume, and apparent thickening, in the hair. Queen for a day works without heat, but can definately benefit from some. I prefer the Label.M cream if I have time, or can be bothered using a dryer, but I have Queen For a Day for busy or lazy days.