Tegan my heart goes out to you but thank you for bringing this subject into the open; I suspect a number of us have concerns.
My hair is fine and in certain lights my scalp is visible. I am glad to be tall because there aren't that many people who would look up there. I used to count the number of hairs I lost when showering but now I scoop them up quickly
. When the hair fashion was back-combing mine just wouldn't stay up but when the fashion was long and straight then I loved my hair. Now I have it trimmed short every five weeks even if it makes my head look like a pimple on a haystack and try to ignore it.
If you feel it would help your confidence then I think you should check out wigs but try to spend as much as you can on it and get proper advice because this will be the 'new you' and yes, you are worth it 
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. I often find myself glancing at ladies older than myself that have hardly any hair on top and thinking 'that's me in a few years time'. Mind you, I stopped going to the hairdresser months ago [knowing I was going to stop work] but, in that time my fringe has hardly grown [if it has] and, when I brush it forward there is a huge parting in the middle. My doctor [who I worked for] used to pick the hair off my shoulders and say 'don't worry, you won't go completely bald'. I'm going with the Keith Richards look at the moment, though but my hair is so thin the bandana just slips off
. Looking on the bright side, I'm saving a fortune in hairdressing costs 