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Do you say prayers?

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Daddima Mon 02-Sept-24 14:00:03

I’ve just been reading social media posts to someone who has been bereaved, and many say things like, ‘ My thoughts and prayers are with you’. This made me wonder how many of these people would actually pray for the bereaved person, and being the cynic that I am, I’d guess not many, and the Facebook post will be as far as it goes.
I’m not a big prayer as such, but I do like a wee quiet time in church.
Do people still do the kneeling by the bed at night kind of praying?

DeeAitch56 Tue 03-Sept-24 11:18:42

I’m a staunch non believer so no

grannytotwins Tue 03-Sept-24 11:10:40

I’m amazed at these posts. The majority saying that they pray. I don’t know anyone, family or friends that has religious beliefs. I’m 74, so not a cool young person.

Sarnia Tue 03-Sept-24 08:55:10

Some people will say that they will offer prayers because they feel it is the right thing to say. How many times do you hear people saying things like 'God help me' when they are non-believers?

Cabbie21 Tue 03-Sept-24 08:46:14

I do pray, but not in an organised or kneeling down by the bed way.

Marydoll Tue 03-Sept-24 07:54:09

mumofmadboys

I don't kneel to pray. I like to pray when I am out walking but also when I potter round the house.

I can no longer kneel to say my prayers, but like you, MMB, I pray as I got about my daily business.
My mantra is ^ Laboratory est orare!^.

DanniRae Tue 03-Sept-24 07:30:50

I pray every morning and during the day if a situation arises that I need to pray about.
It is a great comfort to me smile

mumofmadboys Tue 03-Sept-24 06:28:47

I don't kneel to pray. I like to pray when I am out walking but also when I potter round the house.

grannyactivist Tue 03-Sept-24 00:10:22

My husband and I actually met at church, so our faith has always been fundamental to our relationship. We pray, both together and individually, and because many of our friends know we do we’re often asked to pray for particular situations. We usually do so immediately or as soon as we’re able. Sometimes prayer is accompanied by fasting, though that’s more frequently my husband’s response than mine.

polomint Mon 02-Sept-24 22:29:57

If someone asked me to pray for them and I said yes then I would definitely pray for them. I have faith and prayer is very essential to me. I pray every night and through the day if I feel I need support

Redrobin51 Mon 02-Sept-24 22:16:39

Yes I pray. If someone I know is having a bad time I always pray that they will be helped. It is also a way of keeping them in my thoughts.

Carenza123 Mon 02-Sept-24 22:05:54

I believe in the power of prayer and do pray regularly. My friend’s mother impressed me with her strength of faith before she passed away and I just envied her commitment to her faith.

ginny Mon 02-Sept-24 21:55:17

Nonbeliever , so no I don’t pray.
I will of course keep someone in my thoughts and feel for them.

Skydancer Mon 02-Sept-24 21:23:38

I do pray sometimes but I am not a Christian. I just know there must be a higher power when I look at the incredible world we inhabit.

Greenfinch Mon 02-Sept-24 21:13:16

Some of you may be interested in something I was introduced to by someone I met on holiday. It is called Christian Art and can be accessed online. Every day there is a different painting followed by a Bible reading and a reflection on the painting. It can be an aid to prayer or just food for thought. I often turn to it in the night if sleep eludes me. Just type in Christian art and go to the gospel reading of the day.

Georgesgran Mon 02-Sept-24 21:08:39

Another non-believer, so no.

JudyBloom Mon 02-Sept-24 20:38:56

Yes I do pray, but not the kneeling down at night kind of praying. I also like to read daily reading Devotionals from the Christian bookshop and I have my own Bibles to refer to.

crazyH Mon 02-Sept-24 20:13:25

When we were growing up, we always got together for the family. ‘Rosary’- in front of our altar. It was a bit monotonous and repetitive. These days, although I carry the Roasary Beads in my handbag, I do not have the patience. I go to Church, I pray, but it’s more of a ‘chat’ with God. I do say a short poem-like prayer and the same in the morning. Our church is always open. If I happen to pass by, I always pop in for a few minutes.

Allsorts Mon 02-Sept-24 20:10:53

Yes every night and maybe the odd one in the dayl

Greenfinch Mon 02-Sept-24 20:09:24

That is interesting Marydoll. Thank you for that.

Tuaim Mon 02-Sept-24 20:09:02

I am a spiritual pilgrim so do pray to a higher power rather than to a set deity. I did go to our local parish church but it was so cliquey and run by a few post families and I met this totally disrespectful individual that it put me right off. I am sure that if said with faith and hope then prayers do get answered.

Marydoll Mon 02-Sept-24 20:04:31

My go to is the Virgin Mary, a tradition in the Catholic Church. She never lets me down.

Greenfinch Mon 02-Sept-24 20:00:37

When DD was very ill, the lovely old lady in the next bed to her told me to pray to the Virgin Mary. I felt very uncomfortable about this as it was totally alien to the Anglican tradition I was brought up in .I still ponder about that.

Mt61 Mon 02-Sept-24 19:48:18

I have started praying again, funnily enough- getting to that age where friends & family have declining health- pray they have peaceful outcomes

Deedaa Mon 02-Sept-24 19:48:08

If I have a crisis with the cats I pray to St Francis. He's usually pretty reliable

MissInterpreted Mon 02-Sept-24 19:41:55

halfpint1

I was finished by sunday school. They said we were all sinners, little me décided i was a 'good girl' and stopped listening.

Same here! As soon as I realised you were meant to 'believe' and not ask questions, I was done.