Have just caught up with this thread and the responses to what was said last If you were genuinely not being sarcastic Atqui I apologise unreservedly. I just thought it strange that you should pick words out of a post two or three days ago and quote them back. I am sorry I criticised your punctuation. Very bad of me!
But Gordon Bennett! No one need leave Gransnet because of me. I can think of an alternative solution that might be better all round! 
Sorry for the hijack. As you were. Thank you.
Welcome card for new Vietnamese neighbours?
Struggling with estrangement from 2 adult children and dont know where to go from here.



