Petallus I like your open mindedness and respect for the work done by some Christians. I think there are probably many branches of Christianity which have no record of abuse, hatred or misery. Which don't ban family planning or homosexuals etc. Also other non Christian religions. Ghandi had a deep faith and I don't think anyone would say he had any bad motives for his work. He started as a lawyer, not a particularly spiritual job, but became the leader he was because of his life experiences. Some atheists do it the other way round.
Good works are not just the works of religious people, there are good and bad in all walks of life. Just as bad things are in all works of life and not just by some who call themselves Christians/Muslims/whatever. I don't have a problem with anyone's beliefs, I was brought up in a home with a strong atheist and a deeply spritual Christian so can see both points of view.
It is interesting though that when a Christian/Muslim/whatever does something wicked we all hear about their beliefs but when someone who is not known to have a faith does something wicked we never hear that they were agnostic/atheist/humanist although everyone must be something. Perhaps this distorts our perception of people who profess to have a faith?
My problem is with people who purport to do something bad because of their faith but I am not aware that any religion teaches us to hurt others, it is just some fanatics interpretation of their relgion.
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I don't think the Roman Catholic priests who hurt children did it in the name of their faith though.
Please don't assume anything about my faith or lack of it from this it is just a point of view, no more or less.