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So many people are fake.

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Stillness Sun 23-Nov-25 14:01:18

It can be challenging. I think we live in an increasingly ego or image driven society and then for different reasons this leads to people continuously altering what they say.
I find it helps to balance this out by spending some quiet time on my own otherwise I’d go crazy!

winterwhite Sun 23-Nov-25 13:58:02

I'm afraid I don't quite understand the OP, or else I don't understand what fake means.

Colls Sun 23-Nov-25 13:55:59

That, in some cases is not always being fake.
It can be that these people are not fixed in their views but acknowledge that things are complex and on oth sides of any question there are right points.
Perhaps to would be better if our politicians actually debated and conceded points - though I know our press would destroy them if they did.
I don't believe any thoughtful person should or can have fixed views.
There are many fake people around but I hope we wont confuse flexibility - or just being polite - with being fake.

Moii Sun 23-Nov-25 13:39:31

I know several people who shout from the rooftops about bad bad Tax Evaders but they are themselves, it seems to be clever when they do it.

Judy54 Sat 22-Nov-25 14:28:44

Yes I agree it can be tiring. If it's on television we can have a rant at the screen. If it is people that we know I find there are two strategies that help. One say nothing, do not respond and keep a dignified silence. Two challenge them which usually throws them and they don't know what else to say.

GoodAfternoonTea Fri 21-Nov-25 08:31:30

I've known a few fake people in my time. One, years ago, used to drop designer label names all the time. She did not have a car, she had the 'Asto'. Her bag was the Ted Baker. I have also known a couple of really quite fake religious people who went around professing their faith to all and sundry. When the crunch came for a bit of help or kindness, they were no where to be seen.

Oreo Thu 20-Nov-25 22:58:04

It’s probably always happened in the media world but if friends start doing it it’s time to throw in the towel.

fancythat Thu 20-Nov-25 20:23:42

That is hard for you.

Desdemona Thu 20-Nov-25 19:59:19

I am so tired of so many people, both those I know and those in the media. Saying one thing to someone and then something totally different to someone else. Mixed messages, lies.

Bored of it all.