A lot to unpick here. And of course these are just my own thoughts…
He lied a lot didn’t he? I can’t even imagine going out for seven years with anyone who had omitted to tell me he was married with children, albeit separated. When did he see them? You must have wondered at times when he took himself ‘off grid’ occasionally? Christmas with his boy(s) for instance?
And why pretend his father had died? Oh I get it even as I type. He couldn’t risk introducing you!
So, for years he lived a double life and you never knew. Did you suspect?
As Mary Angelou would say “if someone tells you who they are, believe them”.
Now he’s about to be a grandfather. He’s likely just curious about the grandmother in all this. Probably.
Well you love him. Even after finding out about his lies (I’d have run for the hills at that point alone). He won’t talk. He’s secretive.
Good luck going forward. I’d push communication.
It’s key.
He won’t like it though. It’s his nature to withhold.
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