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Why are so many elderly abandoned by grown up children.

(207 Posts)
Grandmabatty Sun 23-Aug-20 18:58:07

That's a huge assumption to make! What is your evidence for this? Bearing in mind that one example is an anecdote, not statistical data.

BlueBelle Sun 23-Aug-20 18:51:34

Not my experience either, what backs this up, or is it just a personal thought

biba70 Sun 23-Aug-20 18:47:56

I know many who currently feel totally at odds with their parents opinion on a certain major issue. They just don't want to argue and fall out, so they are just keeping away.

MellowYellow Sun 23-Aug-20 18:47:31

Nor mine. Where is this happening?

Ladyleftfieldlover Sun 23-Aug-20 18:46:37

This isn’t my experience either.

kittylester Sun 23-Aug-20 18:42:32

Where have you seen this? It is not what I see around me.

Sparkling Sun 23-Aug-20 18:40:13

It is a fact that a lot of elderly are not visited by their grown up family. No falling out, just indifference. How have things come to this?