Maya1
Casdon, it is just my husband and l here with him. We are both retired and because he has had so many problems he hasn't been left very often.
We don't go on holiday unless he can come with us or days out.
We did wonder if something happened on that Saturday night,
It was the first night we left him since lockdown to babysit our granddaughter.
I feel so guilty now.
Maybe something did happen on the Saturday night when you babysat.
I suspect leaving him for a few hours after not being left at all during lockdown maybe was stressful ?
Some dogs ‘play’ us and without us realising they are manipulating our behaviour to their own ends. I’m not saying your dog is doing this- but it’s something to be aware of. Two of my last three dogs were/are manipulative , just because they are such bright clever dogs.
I would go down stairs, after hearing the barking, there would be no interaction between me and the dog.
Just make a drink sit a while then go back up. Do this gradually taking your night time drink nearer to the stairs, after a week you will aim to be halfway up the stairs, sat on the stairs with your drink. The end goal is to to have the dog reassured just by seeing you without excitement or any interaction.
I only mention it because it worked for my sister, she had the exact same problem!
With mine they just love to sleep with smelly socks, worn pants and t shirts for reassurance. 