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Meandrogrog I literally had no choice. The NHS doctor who misdiagnosed me initially, refused to take any notice of the other symptoms I had that conflicted with her diagnosis, even though she knew they were causing me considerable pain, If my pain was to be relieved and the problem dealt with I had no alternative but seek private treatment because there was no way she was going to refer me on, and any further referal through my GP would be seen as questioning the original doctor's decision.
I know now that i could have requested a second opinion, but at the time with both DH and DD also being treated for the results of NHS neglect, I doubt I could have done it.
I am so sorry for your experiences, and hope you feel better now. I had not wanted to go privately either but like you felt I had no choice, although having said that, my care was so good that I feel it really helped in what was a tough recovery.
I agree with you about paramedics, they really are the unsung heroes and heroines of the NHS and deserve far better salaries, on a par with doctors really.