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Shocking Stabbing

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Cossy Sun 19-Jul-26 18:07:09

This lady was asleep in her bed, with her husband and with her young baby, in their own home.

“A man has been charged with murder after a woman was fatally stabbed in Hayes, west London.

The Metropolitan Police said officers were called just before 08:00 BST to a property on Uxbridge Road on Sunday where they found Kirandeep Kaur with stab wounds.

Despite efforts of emergency services, the 24-year-old was pronounced dead at the scene.

A man in his 20s was found outside the property, also with stab injuries. He remains in hospital and his condition is not considered to be life threatening.

Daniel Sean James, 44, of Mercer Place, Pinner, was also charged on Monday with attempted murder and possession of a bladed article. He is due to appear at Willesden Magistrates' Court on Tuesday”

Someone on Facebook has asked “where is the cold dark rage”

He’s not advocating violence, but he’s questioning why this doesn’t meet the narrative of being outraged.

What is happening in our country and in our world?

Primrose53 Sun 19-Jul-26 21:36:03

Tuliptree

Primrose53

Just a few nights ago a prog was on TV about schoolboy Harvey Wilgoose who was stabbed to death at school by another boy Mohammed Umar Khan. It was absolutely horrifying and very frightening.

Yes Primrose I remember it well. And your point is about this case?

Stop trying to put words into my mouth!

My point is, as I clearly said, is it is horrifying and frightening. I think most people would agree that this is because it could happen in a school with such young kids.

Oreo Sun 19-Jul-26 21:33:56

Posters who sensationalise this murder by saying it was done by a white man so nobody cares are way off the beam! By making out that only ‘they’ are concerned is beyond ridiculous.
Everyone cares about an intruder in the home especially a dangerous one, let alone a murderous one.
The front page news about stabbings and murder is usually reserved for celebrities as there are so many murders now by stabbing in particular, that if they were all headline news there would be no time for anything else.

BoggledMind Sun 19-Jul-26 21:27:44

Tuliptree

I agree about the issue of male violence but I think it’s possible to agree about that and also accept the fact that a white man murdering a Sikh woman in her bed next to her baby and husband is not bothering most people

I'd hope it does bother most people. It bothers me.

Wyllow3 Sun 19-Jul-26 21:22:21

People have little idea of the Sikh religion, how different it is in key aspects to religions from the region. One, clearly mad attacker and brother of Sikh origin as of recent cannot be generalised on.

Read this for example, as I know from a Sikh woman in my interfaith group

"Sikhism on WomenGender equality is a foundational principle of Sikhism. Established in the 15th century, the faith's primary scripture, the Guru Granth Sahib, condemns discrimination and explicitly recognizes women as spiritual equals. Sikh teachings specifically prohibit practices like female infanticide, child marriage, and the wearing of veils. Historically, Sikh women have served as warriors, missionaries, and leaders. In modern practice, women have equal access to participate in all religious services, ceremonies, and leadership roles within the community"

Again, it is the spread of hate and divisiveness by particular groups within our white population that can lead to incidents like this.
Will it be a headline tomorrow? lets see.

Cossy Sun 19-Jul-26 21:05:08

Wyllow3

It if were otherwise I think I can imagine the outcry. In her bed, in her house! 🤬

It bother me! Greatly, that’s why I posted this.

Cossy Sun 19-Jul-26 21:03:30

And your!! Your sister.

Cossy Sun 19-Jul-26 21:01:24

I’m so sorry, I meant how terrifying!

Cossy Sun 19-Jul-26 21:00:57

Gracey

My blood runs cold reading this.

My sister, a widow, was woken by an intruder in her bedroom a few months ago. It was 3am, and the intruder thought the house was empty, until she stirred.
She was ordered to stay in bed. The man, in a balaclava, held a knife to her face, threatening her. He demanded to know where she kept jewellery and money, and where her handbag was.

He stole her purse her phone, her iPad and took her jewellery box.
Then he fled. My sister found drawers and cupboards open down stairs.
A little tip here. If you have a landline phone, do keep it.
She was able to phone the police, who arrived very quickly. They made the back door secure, where he had broken in.
She was very shaken up, obviously.

There are some very nasty people out there, who think nothing of hurting others. We are so very thankful my sister was unharmed.

That poor family. I wonder why that poor woman was targeted? Just awful.

You’re poor sister, how tweeting

Cossy Sun 19-Jul-26 20:57:18

Tuliptree

Is the suspect white? There your answer if he is .

I know not, but he does have a very British sounding name!

Wyllow3 Sun 19-Jul-26 20:43:07

It if were otherwise I think I can imagine the outcry. In her bed, in her house! 🤬

JaneJudge Sun 19-Jul-26 20:17:14

God it bothers me 😭

Tuliptree Sun 19-Jul-26 20:15:59

I agree about the issue of male violence but I think it’s possible to agree about that and also accept the fact that a white man murdering a Sikh woman in her bed next to her baby and husband is not bothering most people

JaneJudge Sun 19-Jul-26 20:11:40

The chap who murdered his wife and kids in Bedford was domestically abusive to her. It doesn’t matter what colour he was (he wasn’t white - I think the message has been lost in translation) but it’s still male violence
How fucking dare he

Wyllow3 Sun 19-Jul-26 20:00:08

Plevey08

Yes I believe he is back here Shinamae. And yes Tuliptree he is white...and I think it is the answer.

Yes. And the more divisive and unaccepting of other faiths and cultures society gets - the more we will find horrifying incidents such as this.

Tuliptree Sun 19-Jul-26 19:58:47

Maybe it’s more frightening when the victim is white?

Tuliptree Sun 19-Jul-26 19:57:51

Primrose53

Just a few nights ago a prog was on TV about schoolboy Harvey Wilgoose who was stabbed to death at school by another boy Mohammed Umar Khan. It was absolutely horrifying and very frightening.

Yes Primrose I remember it well. And your point is about this case?

Tuliptree Sun 19-Jul-26 19:56:25

JaneJudge

Male violence again
It is rarely women

Yes but some people only care about certain acts of male violence depending on the colour of the perpetrator. This thread imo is about that, not about his motive or that he was male but the lack of concern for the family affected.

JaneJudge Sun 19-Jul-26 19:54:28

Tuliptree

My point is that if he is white that explains the lack of outrage at the slaughter of a Sikh woman.

My son’s friend was killed in a stabbing. The outrage was because he was only 17 yo
I just find it incomprehensible tbh that people are picking up kitchen utensils and killing other people with them. This isn’t evolving, this is the fastest way to living in hell

Primrose53 Sun 19-Jul-26 19:53:33

Just a few nights ago a prog was on TV about schoolboy Harvey Wilgoose who was stabbed to death at school by another boy Mohammed Umar Khan. It was absolutely horrifying and very frightening.

JaneJudge Sun 19-Jul-26 19:51:47

Male violence again
It is rarely women

Tuliptree Sun 19-Jul-26 19:44:27

My point is that if he is white that explains the lack of outrage at the slaughter of a Sikh woman.

Luckygirl3 Sun 19-Jul-26 19:34:44

I remember being a social worker when care in the community became the policy. And we all kept saying that it would cost more - that it could not be done on the cheap. It was dressed up as being the right thing to do morally, but it was clear that it was hoped that there would be savings.

Gracey Sun 19-Jul-26 19:25:24

My blood runs cold reading this.

My sister, a widow, was woken by an intruder in her bedroom a few months ago. It was 3am, and the intruder thought the house was empty, until she stirred.
She was ordered to stay in bed. The man, in a balaclava, held a knife to her face, threatening her. He demanded to know where she kept jewellery and money, and where her handbag was.

He stole her purse her phone, her iPad and took her jewellery box.
Then he fled. My sister found drawers and cupboards open down stairs.
A little tip here. If you have a landline phone, do keep it.
She was able to phone the police, who arrived very quickly. They made the back door secure, where he had broken in.
She was very shaken up, obviously.

There are some very nasty people out there, who think nothing of hurting others. We are so very thankful my sister was unharmed.

That poor family. I wonder why that poor woman was targeted? Just awful.

M0nica Sun 19-Jul-26 19:25:01

I do not think anything can be presumed. In fact it is 'presumptions, whipped up by others that cause race riots.

I do not know exactly who the assailant was, or why he was where he was, but I would be very slow to suggest that an attack like this was necessarily racist, just because the victim was of Asian origin. I would require very good evidence to make that assumption.

It is not 'just' anything, a murder never is 'just', however you define the word.

Fallingstar Sun 19-Jul-26 19:23:51

On the news is reporting it as a hate crime.