Wyllow3
I hadn't heard of that flag either tho it does look a bit nasty could pass as an abstract - checked it out and its almost worse than a swastica in meaning. The 14 year old knew all right.
One still wonders - what on earth in his life had led him to this obsession?
He's a boy.
My little boys were not allowed toy guns ; so they made them out of sticks. They all went through phases of action man toys and military games, knives, sleeping out in bivouacs, gangs, being "tough", fires, dirt, falling off bikes , scary games in the woods and endless wrestling around on the floor. All their friends did the same. All living out boy fun and fantasies in person, at home or nearby, with limits. When rough play resulted in harm they actually felt real pain or fear. When ours broke rules, took risks or did dangerous stuff the evidence was usually so immediately obvious to us adults, we could intervene, advise, correct. They had no internet, their only exposure to other peoples fantasy on screen was Startrek and Dr Who. On TV in the family living room , around us.
A very different world from young boys exploring their developing testosterone and masculinity today. Everything they never imagined is right there on a personal screen in their bedroom or pocket and kids don't always know how much of it is real, true or not. Excitement, thrills, even danger, without fear or pain or consequence. Online fantasy based on death, violence and destruction. What 14 yr old Alfie Coleman was exposed to on screen in the secrecy of his bedroom, is provided by adults and easily available to nearly all teens. :-(