mumofmadboys
It wouldnt matter to me whether refugees were white or black. People in need are people in need.
Someone nentioned £350 a month wouldn't cover food for a family of four. It isn't supposed to. That is supposed to be a thank you payment from the government and helps pay for extra fuel costs etc. We chose to all eat together as a family and our guests gave us so much a week towards food costs from their benefit initially and then their wages. Other households manage it differently and their guests buy their own food , cook it and eat it by themselves.
Financially we will not have benefitted. That was obviously never our intention. We had a 2 year old and a 4 year old with the first family and a few things got damaged/ broken.
We have the benefit of a big house with several bathrooms. We had 5 children of our own so were used to a houseful. We have enough money to not worry about it.
Our two experiences have been very positive and we wouldn't have missed it for the world. We hope to have long term friendships with the two families
That’s all lovely for you, but the average family in the uk can barely afford to feed its own family.
Of course if I see a homeless person, usually white British male, drunk, druggie, or just down on their luck, I always buy them something to eat.
The migrants on the other hand, in our town, Lovely clothes, head phones, phones & somewhere to live. So no I wouldn’t go up to them & offer a sandwich as think they are doing ok.