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GrannyGravy13
I live in a nice area.
The new (three week old) Vape & Candy shop is a haven for groups of foreign men. Cat calling young women and female children.
I am 100% sure none of you would like this in your road, a two minute walk from your GC schools…
Is it's so nice and you are so fearful why not be proactive? I feel sure your local Church may be a place to start.
There’s no denying that this is not nice, nor would I like it.
However, this does not represent most men, of any nationality.
I’m so sickened by the likes of Farage and Lowe exploiting the fears and anxieties and prejudices of ordinary people, causing diversion for political gain.
I live in Essex, very close to the newly created City of Southend. We’ve been multi cultural since I moved to my current house almost 40 years ago. I have neighbours of all nationalities and live in a very densely populated area. I know we have Asylum Seekers placed here.
My children attended a very mixed ethnicity primary school, 26 different languages at one point. I was a school governor, safeguarding governor and deputy chair for over a decade.
It was a massive learning curve for me. However I came away from that role with so many positives. I learned that many of my anxieties and fears were unfounded, I learned that children pick up racism and their own fears and anxieties directly from their parents and that if they have positive interactions with people “different” from themselves at a young age their fears and anxieties lessen as their empathy and tolerance grows.
My MP was David Amess, tragically and needlessly murdered by a young foreign man whilst running surgeries. His Tory successor continued to run surgeries as does his Labour successor after the GE.
My husband has his hair cut in a Turkish Barbers situated at the top of our road, we have an orthodox Jewish community living close to us, who peacefully go about their daily lives.
Southend High Street is awful. Many shops shut and mainly vape shops, coffee shops and lots of homeless folks, both British and non-British. Gangs arrive, of all colours, brandishing knives and worse and cause mayhem with our local young people on a regular basis.
However, in the years I have lived here I’ve never (yet) been a victim of a violent crime and the groups I see gathering outside shops are predominantly white. Reform have their councillors here, but we are currently a NOC council so Reform don’t have the majority. We have as many, if not more, people removing flags as hanging them up.
We simply cannot resolve our “small boats” issues or migration fears with violence and prejudice. It doesn’t work for anyone, it doesn’t help anything.
Rather than turning to the likes of Farage and believing all he and media say, why not resource using the many resources online to actually learn and understand why people feel they have no choice but to leave their countries of birth and make long, arduous, dangerous journeys across land and sea to many different countries.
Why not remember, or understand, that there is no system to use a plane or train to arrive in any of these countries in which they seek solace.
Why not understand that many of these people are not bile sexual predators or murderers but simply desperate human beings.
Those who don’t meet the criteria do get turned away. Traffickers do play a huge role in these people’s journals and not just across the channel. Some Asylum seekers do end up in our black market and in the sex trade, or domestic servitude.
The UK has a long and proud history of helping others, others worse off than us. It’s not an either or situation as our “own” home grown people do have help available to them.
Our situation here in the UK is far from ideal, systems, policies, NHS, Education and Welfare all need a massive review and overhaul, but this is due to many reasons and only a very smart part is the fault of those arriving here illegally.
IMO, prejudice of any type is appalling and often due to the amount of misinformation spread via social media, resulting in anger and diversion. Farage is a master of this.