I’m not disagreeing with the outrage expressed here towards Mrs Smythe. It’s incomprehensible to me, as it is to other posters, that a woman, wife, mother could be involved in the abuse by treating wounds and failing to seek help, ideally from police, but also from her Church companions
We need to remember that corporal punishment was viewed through a different lens. For reasons beyond my comprehension, head teachers, form tutors, parents, residential care workers were allowed to beat the bottoms of children. Why the obvious sexual elements were denied is a mystery.
Mrs S, supported by her children says fear kept her compliant. I fear it was worse, that it didn’t seem like abuse to her. I’m not excusing thst