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Meghan Markle’s father, Thomas, is in intensive care seriously ill.

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FriedGreenTomatoes2 Wed 03-Dec-25 19:38:08

Sad to read of this just now.
I do wonder how Meghan will respond. I suppose it’s a case of too little too late now.

Casdon Mon 08-Dec-25 12:57:09

Although what FionaH2000 says is true, so I’m not sure why she is being given such a hard time? You only have to read estrangement posts on Mumsnet to see people who feel exactly as she describes, unpalatable though that is.

eazybee Mon 08-Dec-25 12:45:21

Exactly.

Usedtobeblonde Mon 08-Dec-25 12:34:58

Perhaps worth a read and draw your own conclusions .

Usedtobeblonde Mon 08-Dec-25 12:16:30

Fiona has started other threads today!!!

FriedGreenTomatoes2 Mon 08-Dec-25 11:26:06

We take your word of course Fiona that you are a doctor and psychologist. We are advised to be cautious on this forum. Anyone can tell us they are/were anything!

FriedGreenTomatoes2 Mon 08-Dec-25 11:22:57

I think you are trying to teach grandmothers to suck eggs BlessedArt!

MarieElla Mon 08-Dec-25 11:00:46

BlessedArt; what I meant was,
Why post on a thread if you have no interest in its content?
It would appear that you post in order to tell people off for posting about M&H?
I don't agree or disagree with you...just puzzled at your posting content, that's all.

BlessedArt Mon 08-Dec-25 10:53:33

Allira

^If you are looking to debate feelings on these famous strangers I am sure others share your passion and can indulge you.^

Ouch! Unnecessary, uncalled for, and I'm puzzled as to why you are indulging yourself by posting on this thread Blessedart .

Please see my comment above.

Also, with all the rude, nasty, even sometimes conspiracy driven comments on this thread, it’s beyond disingenuous to call anyone’s comment “uncalled for” if you haven’t also condemned the actual nasty comments posted here. This is an open forum. It’s not a private hate club where only those posting their hatred of specific famous people can comment. All are free, provided talk guidelines set by Gransnet and not a group of posters, are followed. If humans cannot accept that they cannot control and exclude others from voicing their opinions on open internet forums, it should not be unclear why humans can’t get handle contrary opinions in real life. This is not a school yard. Your choice to read and respond to comments is in your hands. I have that same right. If this is puzzling, well I don’t know what else to tell you.

BlessedArt Mon 08-Dec-25 10:44:23

MarieElla

BlessedArt, why are you commenting on this thread?
I really don't get it.
I scroll on by any titles that don't interest me.
Why stop and post?

To answer your question, because I can. Do you always have a problem with the free will of others or is it just when you disagree with them?

Allira Mon 08-Dec-25 10:27:03

Goodness, what are you insinuating, FionaH2000?

Not a pleasant post, a sideways swipe and insinuations on social media about someone and a situation about which you know no more than the rest of us.

Lathyrus3 Mon 08-Dec-25 10:22:46

Ha ha obviously spell check censored that a bit😂😂

Lathyrus3 Mon 08-Dec-25 10:21:45

Well we do know about their childhoods Fiona because they’ve told us all about it.

Harry wrote a whole book about it.
Why do you think we don’t know what went on? It’s there in detail, right down to the size of his bedroom and his brothers circumstances😱

REKA Mon 08-Dec-25 10:09:02

They're are Doctors and medical staff who Jane gone off and committed heinous crimes resulting in loss of line

Anniebach Mon 08-Dec-25 10:03:28

There are doctors and psychologists who have failed to protect the public from murderers

FionaH2000 Mon 08-Dec-25 09:56:43

Hello, new to here and second post now!

I am a retired doctor and psychologist and no-one ever knows what has gone on in someone's childhood. Some parents can be horrific to their children. So I will never judge how someone treats their parents - that is within the law.

Perhaps she won't have any regrets. I know patients who are relieved when their parents a.k.a. abusers die. For many of them they can start to heal at that point.

eazybee Mon 08-Dec-25 09:37:18

H & M thought they could use the Press to their own advantage, and are now discovering they cannot control it, particularly the British press.
Telegraph readers suffer regular updates about Meghan's time-wasting activities in the kitchen, so she can expect similar coverage of her (lack of) family relationships.

Usedtobeblonde Mon 08-Dec-25 08:18:46

It really shouldn’t be any concern of ours .
They should sort out ,within their family, what needs to be said and done, if anything can after all that has happened.
The newspapers should butt out .

GrannyGravy13 Mon 08-Dec-25 07:57:35

I was listening to a news item on this earlier. Apparently Mr.Markle is in hospital in the Philippines.

I doubt very much that the Meghan will travel over there to visit her father, hopefully a telephone conversation could ease the situation.

Iam64 Mon 08-Dec-25 07:50:08

Harry and Meghan only ‘surfaced’ here after FGT posted about Mr Markle’s illness and Daily Mail interview. It’s said MM emailed her father, who knows ?
It’s the sad pattern if Mr Markle communicating with his estranged daughter via the Daily Mail.
Estrangement is hideous for everyone involved. This incident can’t help anyone.
In Megan’s place I suspect most of us would try to avoid getting drawn in

Allira Sun 07-Dec-25 22:13:17

eazybee

I suppose it is ridiculous, but wherever Harry and Meghan surface, there is trouble.

Some people do invite trouble.

eazybee Sun 07-Dec-25 22:07:37

I suppose it is ridiculous, but wherever Harry and Meghan surface, there is trouble.

Allira Sun 07-Dec-25 22:05:55

LemonJam

I don’t change your spelling in your 15. 47 post Lathyrus3- quoted your spelling….

Lemonjam *Lathyrus said
Personally I don’t think that’s an admirable reason for never having said anything about him.

Then you said:
Lathyrus3,- I'm not putting forward any 'admiral reasons' regarding Meghan.

🤔

LemonJam Sun 07-Dec-25 21:41:45

My 15.55 post quotes you directly 🤷‍♀️

LemonJam Sun 07-Dec-25 21:28:01

I don’t change your spelling in your 15. 47 post Lathyrus3- quoted your spelling….

Franski Sun 07-Dec-25 21:07:41

I don't think any of us know what's going on in people's family lives. We all know that there are layers, history, details and nuance. Not really anything we can comment on with any confidence.