Lets put it another way round. What sort of conditions would lead you to risk your life and your whole family in order to escape from this country to another country?
I heard a story today, of a young man. His family had always been active in opposition politics in his country of origin, but the government had become a dictaatorship. First his father was arrested and killed. His mother was told he had had a heart attack, but they saw the body and it was clear he had been tortured to death. Then his brother disappearedand has now been missing for 5 years.
His mother fearful of losing her only surviving son, told him to flee the country immediately. He would not be safe in an adjacent country because of his govenment's hit squads, Britain has a reputation as upholding the rule of law, so his mother sold everything she could to raise the money to pay people smugglers to get him to Britain. He speaks fluent English and has relations in this country.
In his and his mother's ssituation. What would you do?