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JaneJudge
I watched a program on it and the 'experts' (therapists) on the program suggested there should be a push towards encouraging people to seek help. There was a young man on it who recognised he was a paedophile but sought therapy to help him deal with it, rather than offending as he knew it was wrong. I found it quite interesting
The trouble is, the connotations for seeking help leave a person vulnerable for the rest of their lives. Imagine being seen visiting the clinic! I suppose it is easier with online sessions these days but it takes a very brave person to admit that they have these tendencies and to try to do something about them.
Yes, this is what I was getting at earlier. If it is something that can't be helped (ie the condition, not the acting on it) then should the push be to help rather than punish, and remove some of the stigma? I don't know, as there have to be lines in the sand that people know they cross at their peril.
I think it should be possible to talk about it without hysteria though. The protection of children has to be the priority with no exceptions, but I wonder whether more children would be protected if potential abusers could get therapy without risking social exclusion and sanctions. I don't know the answer, but I think the question is worth asking.