We cant tar all with the same brush, thats the problem with giving one of individual examples.
Locally Quakers I know work with some refugees and a whole set of different stories come out - (including counselling post torture and skills),
Lets see a rounded picture of a whole number of different individuals.
Do you get emotionally attached to the plants in your garden ?
Only 50% of middle age adult manage more than 1 brisk 10 min walk a month.


