It really doesn't bother me whether someone looks like a man or a woman. It rarely matters. It is only when women are vulnerable that we need to know that we are in single sex company, unless there are religious or cultural reasons why a woman shouldn't be touched intimately by a man unless there is danger to life if she is not.
As I'm not obsessive about it all, I don't go around 'noticing' who looks male and who looks traditionally feminine - I don't care. I do care about vulnerable women, and about language. I care about getting statistics right for sociological reasons. I care about women having rights to things like awards that remain open to women only.
I certainly don't go around with my eyes closed though
. What a strange idea.
Mums passed no will but possible debt
My dad spent 40 years mastering his craft, and last week someone half his age told him how to eat.😠

