I’ve been in and out of hospital all my life due to disability from birth so I’ve seen a lot of changes. Things ran a lot better when it was largely in the hands of medical people, rather than the layers of management we have now. And I’ll probably bring a ton of criticism down on my head for saying this, but I really feel that nowadays there is a lot of demand for NHS treatment of things for which it was never intended. Cosmetic surgery for body dysmorphia, fertility treatment, gender reassignment surgery, to name but a couple.
In my experience, once you get to the real experts, there’s no better care than that provided by our NHS. The problem is the difficulty in getting to the right people before things get out of hand. My late husband was failed by our GP, who didn’t recognise the early signs of cancer. As a result he was misdiagnosed and valuable time was wasted - it wasn’t until he was admitted to hospital after collapsing, that his advanced lung cancer was diagnosed. He spent time in HDU and ITU, and the care he received was on another level entirely, but unfortunately it was too late for him by then. My own feeling is that we need to provide better training to those who are the gateway from primary to secondary care. To do that, and to raise the NHS to the world class service it deserves to be, I think we’re all going to have to be prepared to pay more.
People being over fussy about cat welfare
Anyone else struggle with this?
Support and friendship for those whose lives have been affected by estrangement.


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