I've posted about this on another thread but it's relevant here too.
Did it occur to no-one to let the boy play with the toys he wanted and like the characters he wanted to, without fuss from adults?
(This is only a small extract. You can read the rest on the GirlGuiding Magazine website, linked below)
‘We often meet people who don’t understand how we, as parents, “could let our boy become a girl”', says Jane. ‘Did we want them to be a girl? Was it parental influence? Shouldn’t we have just told them to stop? Understandable questions. Perhaps the best way to explain it is walk you through our story.’
Jane and her husband Mike started noticing that Rainbow identified more with female characters, toys and books when she was 18 months old. ‘Some people suggested we just say no, encourage her to identify with the male characters, but how can you explain that to a young child? To what end? No to playing with toys she loved or characters she loved to pretend to be? It felt cruel to say no, to the say the least.’
girlguiding.foleon.com/guiding-magazine/guiding-summer-2022/rainbow-girl