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the law as it stands on sex - part 3

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Doodledog Sat 23-Apr-22 09:11:32

Two thousand posts so far!

To pick up where we left off, I’ll repeat my post from the end of the last thread - I got home too late to get any answers or many comments. I’ll keep the formatting to make it easier to bold, but will lost the bold type or italics:

I’ve been out this evening, so am just catching up with the thread, and have a few questions, if that’s ok.

trisher, you seem to find a lot of this funny, but I don’t see it like that at all.

What was the point of the ‘spot the transwoman’ game?

As Galaxy says, you are quick to label others, and I wouldn’t have thought being called an ‘ally’ would have struck you as offensive, but if you don’t like it I will try to remember not to use it in relation to you. Perhaps you would remember that many people on here (me included) find ‘cis’ offensive, and would return the favour?

I also see myself as someone who believes in human rights and equality. I posted the Amnesty list of human rights on this very thread, after VS insisted that the human rights of transpeople were being abused. I asked which ones were being denied, but there was no response from either of you.

Human rights are very important to me, but I really don’t think that being allowed to undress in front of the opposite sex is a human right, and can’t see anything on the Amnesty list that is being denied to transpeople. If you think otherwise, please state which ones they are, and I’ll reconsider.

VS, You say:
Thats exactly what was said any time anyone asked for their rights... Others complained it violated theirs. It didn't and it doesn't
Can you please explain what you mean by that? I see it trotted out a lot, but nobody who repeats it has explained how it relates to the following situations:
Where there are people whose rights to undress in a single sex environment is violated by people asking for the right to use that environment as members of the opposite sex.

Where people want the right to compete fairly in a sport that they have trained for for years, but that right is violated by those who have stronger and differently proportioned bodies insisting on competing against them.

When people want the right to have agency over who touches them intimately but that right is violated by someone who does not declare their male sex to female patients/clients.

I would be interested to hear your thoughts, as I do see those things as violations of the rights of one group of people by another.

Also, what is it that you think that legislation has dealt with fairly, please?

Doodledog Mon 09-May-22 01:54:50

Which, of course they don’t. Their whole agenda is misogynist and built on a total lack of respect for women.

Rosie51 Sun 08-May-22 23:54:06

I won't use 'cis' either, don't like using 'natal' but figure it's less triggering to the TRAs than 'real' which is more accurate in common parlance. 'Cis' to me is a demeaning insult but the TRAs use it all the time, it's almost like they have no respect or consideration.

Doodledog Sun 08-May-22 23:46:26

Isn't it odd that natal women mustn't use the term 'women' but have to be cervix havers, vagina owners, birthing people etc but transwomen are women and can use the term freely? The only time we can use the term 'women' is when we are including men.
This is one of the reasons why I am so adamant about not ever using 'cis'. I always refer to women as women (I'm such a radical grin) and to transwomen as transwomen.

Rosie51 Sun 08-May-22 23:38:42

Good article, thanks for the link FarNorth

Isn't it odd that natal women mustn't use the term 'women' but have to be cervix havers, vagina owners, birthing people etc but transwomen are women and can use the term freely? The only time we can use the term 'women' is when we are including men.

Mollygo Sun 08-May-22 20:04:09

That’s an amazing article. It’s frightening that so many people when they say trans women are women actually believe that a magic wand can change someone’s sex.

Doodledog Sun 08-May-22 20:00:07

I don't know whether to laugh or cry, so I'll laugh ?.

The whole chickdick/boydick thing is straight outta Jerry Springer The Opera. No wonder they were embarrassed.

FarNorth Sun 08-May-22 19:48:58

An article by Judith Woods on the recent WPUK meeting in Bristol.

archive.ph/M7QT6

"A young woman with aquamarine hair is striding around with a megaphone leading a call and response, as a policewoman watches from a distance on a Bristol street.

“Trans rights are human rights!”
The motley crowd of students answer as one: “Trans rights are human rights!”

“Protect trans students!”
“Protect trans students!” they parrot.

Then she gets a little over-aerated: “Terfs can suck my boy d---.”
Nobody says a word, they just shuffle uncomfortably."

Doodledog Sun 08-May-22 09:22:21

Yes, I too hope that this can be nipped in the bud.

Rosie51 Sat 07-May-22 11:18:05

Good about the productive meeting Mollygo, at least they've had to acknowledge the situation. Hope your cynicism turns out to be unfounded, and something is enacted immediately.

Mollygo Sat 07-May-22 09:48:40

Re 04.05 @ 9:47
Productive meeting.
Something is going to be done! Forgive my cynicism but I’ll wait and see what happens.

Chewbacca Fri 06-May-22 22:03:45

A protection racket is precisely what it is FarNorth; I'm desperately hoping that Allison wins her case and that Stonewall is exposed for the misogynistic, anti gay bullies that they are. They've hung out to dry the very minorities of society that they were set up to support. I wish them a speedy, and catastrophic, downfall for all the harm they've caused Allison, Maya, Kathleen and many others.

FarNorth Fri 06-May-22 19:50:22

Allison Bailey speaking in court.

"Allison Bailey: Stonewall’s activism is ‘like protection racket’"

www.thetimes.co.uk/article/allison-bailey-stonewall-activism-charity-lgbtq-protection-racket-gc9g660kj?shareToken=7d50a4a6e868942eda46d2a9698e695d&fbclid=IwAR0SubeBTkb0ECqc7qqjDIwfeE6jCe1OULre-6FeQq_XwU58S3xJinlGObg

Fennel Thu 05-May-22 20:54:15

Does anyone know what is in the GSE curriculum to be taught about this subject?

Mollygo Wed 04-May-22 21:30:58

Can’t add further info at the moment as this is being looked into as it’s all news to them!!!!

SueDonim Wed 04-May-22 15:14:50

shock Where is this, Mollygo? Who is doing this?

Doodledog Wed 04-May-22 12:12:46

What?

That’s really worrying, but is the logical extension of so-called ‘gender’ identity, isn’t it? If you ‘behave as/live as/feel like’ a woman, you are a woman, and ditto a man. The trouble is that nobody can say what behaving like/living as or feeling like a woman actually means - that is something that others have to just accept, or be accused of transphobia, racism or whatever.

It’s insidious. As many of us have said, ‘feeling like’ a woman is meaningless - what it means to me may well be different from what it means to others reading this, but once the TRAs get to force others to accept the concept they can start to define it, and also to define what it is not, which is clearly dangerous to anyone who believes that being a woman should not be something that needs the approval of the patriarchy.

Mollygo Wed 04-May-22 09:47:49

Is it OK that 6th formers are telling 12 year olds when they should be having sex? That they are a-romantic and a-sexual? That if they’re not into make-up they are displaying as transmen?
Is it right that they should be telling the girls not to tell their parents?
I’m going into school later this morning to discuss what they think grooming and sexual bullying means.

DiamondLily Wed 04-May-22 08:45:17

This rape survivor, "Sarah" is suing a Brighton based rape support charity, for allowing TW's to access their (previously) "female only" support /therapy groups, and by them not offering a separate service for biological females only..

"Sarah, who is now married and in her 40s, requested a support group for those who were born female but said the organisation ‘made it really clear they can’t offer me any help’.

The Survivors’ Network’s trans inclusive policy states its women-only services are available to any ‘self-identifying woman’.

This is defined as ‘an individual that feels their gender identity is a woman, irrespective of the gender they were assigned at birth’. " ?

www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-10779947/Rape-victims-legal-fight-transgender-woman-allowed-access-female-support-group.html

Mollygo Tue 03-May-22 19:06:11

Doodledog

*Please could those posters, who kept reassuring us that trans women are no danger to women prisoners because they've made specialist prison wings for them, come back and explain how this is clearly not the case, as of today's date?*

They can't, Chewbacca. It's the 5th Amendment defence that saying anything might prove the case against them.

I read Chewbacca’s post with horror, but Doodledog I think you’re right, but in their place, I would stay as silent as those posters you mention, rather than defend the indefensible.

Doodledog Tue 03-May-22 17:16:08

Please could those posters, who kept reassuring us that trans women are no danger to women prisoners because they've made specialist prison wings for them, come back and explain how this is clearly not the case, as of today's date?

They can't, Chewbacca. It's the 5th Amendment defence that saying anything might prove the case against them.

Chewbacca Tue 03-May-22 15:12:07

Annie found out that the second man in the female prison was convicted of murder. Neither man was in any kind of transition process, and had fully intact male bodies, according to her. And yet, she says, “women who are traumatized and vulnerable are having to be naked and shower with men in their spaces, and some decided not to shower at all,” as prison cells don’t have showers - the women share a communal facility for that.

Afraid of rape, Annie asked a prison doctor for a contraceptive coil, something she never wanted or needed before.

“Soon, I need to make another appointment to have this device removed, which fills me with dread due to being a rape and sexual assault survivor. I can't believe I have to go through this again, four years after leaving prison, it almost feels like another violation on my body that I didn’t want, and as usual it stems from men.”
“I didn’t want to see men there but I did. I didn’t want to share showers with men but I was forced to. I didn’t want to see men prance about naked in my shower area yet there they were doing just that,” Annie said. “There is no escaping these men from morning until night and unless women refuse to work and remain in their cells they can't be safe.”

Annie also recounted that, while waiting to see her children, she was locked in a holding cell with one of the men with no prison officer. She said that female prisoners can’t challenge the policies, or they will be punished. “A woman can be charged, a woman can be written up which affects too many things to mention. She can have privileges withdrawn. She can be locked in her cell for longer than the usual 23 hours. She can have visitation removed.”

Please could those posters, who kept reassuring us that trans women are no danger to women prisoners because they've made specialist prison wings for them, come back and explain how this is clearly not the case, as of today's date?

DiamondLily Tue 03-May-22 14:39:46

It used to be (and might still be), a legal obligation in respect of the prison authorities/government to provide a "duty of care" to all prisoners, and prison officers.

If sexual offenders, with a penis, are running around in female prisons, especially in places like shower areas, they must be failing in this.?

Iam64 Tue 03-May-22 14:32:05

The statistics on women prisoners won’t surprise anyone whose had even a passing involvement with women in prison. Desperate places for inhabitants and staff who work there
Most women get short sentences for offences like shop lifting. I’m not minimising the crime, but the reality is they’re stealing either/and to fund drug habits/put food on the table.

The information about trans women in prison, 60% with a current or past history of sex offences is another thing thst sadly doesn’t surprise me. How anyone can justify -lacing these individuals in a women’s prison is beyond me.

If necessary, use a wing in a male prison, like they do with rule 43 prisoners

Chewbacca Tue 03-May-22 13:04:45

“Women in prison are widely recognized to have experienced significant trauma before they are even placed in custody, trauma unique to their sex. About 70% have suffered child sex abuse, rape, domestic violence or a combination of those things. In one prison, HMP Drake Hall, 65% of the women were found to have suffered traumatic brain injuries, overwhelmingly as the result of domestic violence.”

According to Patricia, there were 158 males in prison (England and Wales) in 2021 who identified as women. “About 60% had a current or previous history of sex offenses,” she said. "There are nine males with GRCs and they are held in women’s prisons, including one who is known to be a sex offender."

This link is the story of 3 women, who are currently in UK prisons, with men who say they are women, and how they are so afraid that they are no longer taking a shower:

4w.pub/female-prisoners-forced-to-share-showers-with-intact-males/

Elegran Tue 03-May-22 10:25:51

FarNorth

I think it's time politicians were asked 'What is a man?'
Perhaps that would concentrate their minds more than the airy-fairy concept of 'woman'.

I'm repeating myself, but here is Egard's ad on the subject - and there is a comment "Notice how they did it without bashing women"
www.youtube.com/watch?v=x_HL0wiK4Zc

and, in case you missed it, Egard's "What is a woman?"
www.youtube.com/watch?v=5_JXZuXxc3M