MissAdventure
Nobody is saying it outright, but that doesn't mean it's not being said.
Who do you think is saying it, and in which posts?
growstuff, that sounds like a good way to spend your final years (which obviously I hope are a long way off).
But that is your choice. Suppose someone else chose instead give their children money to fulfil their dreams? Why is it ok for you to make your choice, and them to be considered grasping for wanting to make theirs? Assuming that both you and they have paid into the system that supposedly insures us all against needing care, that is.
I think what we are all doing is looking at the NI system from different points of view. To me, it is an insurance scheme against illness and unemployment. If we are lucky, we won't use it, but it is still right that we pay in (a) just in case, and (b) to help those who do need it. There will be those who (for various reasons) don't pay in, and they should be covered too, but to me the point of it is that we can all claim on it if we need to. From cradle to grave. I have no problem with paying more than I am paying if the scheme is underfunded, but as I have said, I don't see it as the fault of contributors if we have not been asked to contribute enough - we don't manage the scheme.
Others seem to see it as a scheme paid for by those in work to cover only those who are unable to pay for care at point of need, although what constitutes 'unable' is up for discussion.
I don't think anyone is arguing for those who can't pay to be denied care, and I don't think anyone is saying that they want others to pay for them - rather that they have already paid their premiums and reserve the right to claim on them if the need arises.