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MawBe Sun 06-Jun-21 17:18:46

Lilibet Diana Mountbatten- Windsor, born on Friday.
Good choice of names! tcrsmile ?

Anniebach Fri 11-Jun-21 19:18:43

They could keep quiet and dropped the tv interviews trashing the royal family I suppose

maddyone Fri 11-Jun-21 19:12:15

I seem to have crept into the above post, but neither parts of the two posts relate to what I was saying in my post.
Just saying.

trisher Fri 11-Jun-21 19:09:12

Smileless2012

"The RF certainly has enough cash to keep them all comfortably without any other support, And still they need more" so where do H&M fit in trisher?

H spat his dummy out when his father withdrew financial support, despite both him and M have "enough cash to keep them .... comfortably without any other support. And they still need more".

Great post maddyonesmile.

H&M as I understand it are using their public profile and connections to spotlight the different charities they support. As I understand it they are using their personal fortunes and money from Charles to live on, and topping it up with their earnings from interviews etc. They could keep quiet and drop the charities I suppose.

Galaxy Fri 11-Jun-21 18:57:04

With her sister that should say.

Galaxy Fri 11-Jun-21 18:56:35

None of my aunts or uncles were at my wedding. Peoples families are very different. My mum would have much preferred to be on her own than either her sister grin

JaneJudge Fri 11-Jun-21 18:52:11

I think Doria was brave too smile

JaneJudge Fri 11-Jun-21 18:51:30

theworriedwell

I should have checked first. Doria has half siblings so maybe that makes a difference although half siblings can be close.

They are in their 70s as well, maybe they felt they couldn't travel or cope with such a situation? I don't think I could in all honesty.

maddyone Fri 11-Jun-21 18:43:27

I agree with you theworriedwell, I thought Doria looked very lonely at the wedding. I felt sorry for her having to face all that on her own. I wouldn’t have liked it and I live here. What it was like for a lady from another country that doesn’t have the institution of royalty I can only guess, but she was so dignified despite being so alone. I was nervous just being the bride’s mother and being the last to enter the church before the bride, with all those eyes on me. I’m glad I only had one daughter and won’t have to do that again. I imagine Doria must feel the same. But to have the eyes of the world on her, she was very brave.

theworriedwell Fri 11-Jun-21 18:25:37

I should have checked first. Doria has half siblings so maybe that makes a difference although half siblings can be close.

Ellianne Fri 11-Jun-21 18:25:20

I'm not sure anyone really stops to check the tickets showing who has donated the dresses anyway, let alone their titles, so I can't comment.
What was interesting to me were Diana's own sketches of how she wanted the outfits to look.

theworriedwell Fri 11-Jun-21 18:20:38

JaneJudge

maybe they couldn't afford to go? Not all families are close either, it doesn't necessarily mean they are estranged

That is even sadder if they couldn't afford to go, very rich niece marrying very very rich man. Surely they could have helped them if that was the case. I think it would be a very distant aunt who'd refuse a trip to London and such an amazing event if she was invited.

I guess everyone is different. Her mother just looked a bit lonely at times and you'd think her sister would have been a bit of company and someone to share it all with.

Lucca Fri 11-Jun-21 18:13:56

Assume. Assume. Assume. Stupid I pad.

Lucca Fri 11-Jun-21 18:13:29

maddyone

Why would it make anyone happy Lucca. The whole situation is unbearably sad for the royal family, and difficult to observe for many of the rest of us.

I’m so sorry about the situation with your father JaneJudge. As I have also experienced estrangement I know how awful it is, unless of course there has been abuse, then of course it’s different. I was very distressed when my sister estranged her whole family. I lost touch with my niece and nephews who I loved, and I found the whole situation very difficult. We didn’t know until the estrangement was over that my sister had been mentally ill.
You could be right about ghosting, maybe it is just ignoring someone, although that must still be difficult to bear if it’s a beloved family member or a dear friend. It doesn’t seem to be much different than estrangement really does it?

I ass use that people would be pleased at the removal of HRH that’s all. That’s the impression I get from these threads.

maddyone Fri 11-Jun-21 17:11:43

No one would ever wish anything for a newborn child other than a happy and healthy life.

Shelflife Fri 11-Jun-21 16:33:39

Very happy to learn of the arrival of Harry and Meghan's daughter. Genuinely delighted for them ! However Lilibet!!!? So not right , a very personal name of the Queen . I feel as though they have stolen it from her. Why not Elizabeth if they wanted to honour her great Grandma! They could then call her Lili. Not sure what their motives were for choosing Lilibet. Rumour has it they asked the Queens permission- not too sure about that. I do wish them every happiness in their new life and wish them all good health.

Whatdayisit Fri 11-Jun-21 16:14:48

I think ghosting is when someone just abruptly starts blanking you and you don't know why.
Estrangement can be after a fall out.

Piers Morgan accuses MM of ghosting him. But MM is estranged from her father after falling out.

Callistemon Fri 11-Jun-21 15:17:41

Ah, yes, I see.
Serves me right for skim reading!

Lucca Fri 11-Jun-21 15:14:08

Callistemon

^Read this morning, Diana’ wedding dress is now on display,^

I thought it was already as I remember seeing it at Althorp a while ago, Lucca.

I’ve no idea but someone posted about the HRH. But being removed and I just assumed posters would be pleased?Just an impression I get ….

Ellianne Fri 11-Jun-21 15:13:05

I went to a Diana's dresses at Kensinguon Palace a few years back. I love fashion and fabrics. I was surprised to see how wide she was on the shoulders, (not just shoulder pads!). I'm guessing this was because she was a swimmer. A bit like Monaco's Charlene in stature.

Callistemon Fri 11-Jun-21 15:00:19

Read this morning, Diana’ wedding dress is now on display,

I thought it was already as I remember seeing it at Althorp a while ago, Lucca.

maddyone Fri 11-Jun-21 14:56:50

Why would it make anyone happy Lucca. The whole situation is unbearably sad for the royal family, and difficult to observe for many of the rest of us.

I’m so sorry about the situation with your father JaneJudge. As I have also experienced estrangement I know how awful it is, unless of course there has been abuse, then of course it’s different. I was very distressed when my sister estranged her whole family. I lost touch with my niece and nephews who I loved, and I found the whole situation very difficult. We didn’t know until the estrangement was over that my sister had been mentally ill.
You could be right about ghosting, maybe it is just ignoring someone, although that must still be difficult to bear if it’s a beloved family member or a dear friend. It doesn’t seem to be much different than estrangement really does it?

Lucca Fri 11-Jun-21 14:34:28

“ Read this morning, Diana’ wedding dress is now on display,
a sign read it was with permission of HRH the Duke of Cambridge and HRH the Duke of Sussex, the sign has now been change to - HRH the Duke of Cambridge and the Duke of
Sussex”

Well that should make you happy everyone ? Yes ?

JaneJudge Fri 11-Jun-21 14:25:57

I am estranged from my biological Father and his family, if that helps. Ghosting is just ignoring someone isn't it?

maddyone Fri 11-Jun-21 14:15:24

Since my sister completely estranged her entire family for seven years (mental health problems, now much better with treatment) I think I know exactly what estrangement is. It is having nothing whatsoever to do with someone. I think there’s a modern word nowadays that may describe it, ghosting. Maybe you have a different view.

JaneJudge Fri 11-Jun-21 14:07:52

I am not determined grin I just find it difficult to understand why people cannot accept people have different family dynamics to their own. It isn't necessarily an estrangement. I realise it is in her Fathers family's case. Maybe we have differing views on what counts as an estrangement though