What I am saying is, if you choose to move abroad - do your homework, factor in difficulties and costs, seek advice and just go with it. Even in Brexit times nothing is insurmountable.
What you are doing here, Ellianne, is missing the entire point, which is that Brexit has introduced complexities to moving to an EU country which didn't exist before. No amount of Pollyannaism changes that fact.
Hell, I'm still annoyed that we can no longer book a ferry or flight, pick up our passports and go. No amount of telling me that we 'only' have to do this, that or the other, extra is any consolation. In fact, it is the source of extra annoyance at the mentality of the people who put us into this stupid position.
Still with absolutely no tangible benefits to show for it.