We haven’t needed to downsize yet, and we do spend a lot of time in separate rooms. I still work, off and on, and I take various courses, so I need peace and quiet when I’m busy. My husband plays musical instruments and has music on between times, so we do need our own space.
Also, I am a lot colder than he is, and like the fire on a lot earlier than he would. The existing arrangement means that we tend to be in rooms with different temperatures during the day, and sit together in the evening.
Neither of us is old enough to qualify for the allowance (or state pension), but I’d say we definitely use more fuel between two than either of us would as singles. There are two lots of baths, more washing (although not twice as many loads) and so on, too.
I don’t know why there has to be a separate allowance anyway, apart from the fact that it causes conversations like this and the chance for calls to withdraw it, as there are for anything given to older people. Why not include it in a decent pension and stop begrudging pensioners the money they have worked for all their lives?
Before anyone says that we can’t afford to pay people a decent pension - we are the sixth richest country in the world! We can afford it. It’s a question of priorities and political will.
What "back then" inconvenience would annoy today's youngsters?
Does anyone have a middle name?
Honestly, my house is such a mess



