I'm looking at it differently.
If you spend a couple of years trying to coax a fractious toddler through the "terrible twos" you don't then run out of patience, stamp your feet and stomp off when things are seriously difficult.
A ridiculous analogy, I know, when we're watching the chaos caused by our so-called leaders.
Ken Clarke has said that this is such a momentous decision that we have to ride the storm and, instead of demanding an immediate solution, right now, we should be demanding a solution that will sustain our children and grandchildren.
We could hope that a change in leadership, a general election, a second referendum might give us that but at the moment we are justifiably losing hope.
Who would have predicted the present scenario?
Who can say what might happen now the pressure is really on?
I believe a second referendum with very clearly defined criteria might do it. There were so many flaws in the last one that it just can't be trusted.
If seen as honest, truthful and correctly conducted a second one would be far more acceptable, whatever the result.