Thank you lemon, how kind. And you are right.
Actually, as much as the current situation grieves and upsets me- and will probably affect me financially even more (already down 50% of income) ... I personally will be totally fine, and so will my DDs and GCs- as we all have dual nationality, and GCs also have access to Irish nationality.
DDs work in extremely good jobs, one a VERY high level- and all the doors will be opened to them. They speak fluent French too, and have a good knowledge of German and Spanish. We have the possibility of running a large B&B with courses, raise our own beef, lamb and chickens, and all fruit and veg. So not a single worry for us- we are very very lucky.
But it does not stop me from caring about the country I adopted in 1970, became a citizen of in 1972, where I was very happy and integrated, with so many good friends. Where I studied hard, got my B.Ed.Hons and taught for so many years- and where OH totally dedicated his whole life to NHS. About the open, tolerant attitude to differences, which is often missing in my other country, and in France too, just next door. Yes, I could cry for the GREAT Britain which I so loved.