Gilly, leaving here would be distressing but I have to be sensible , far easier for me to leave a rented bungalow than for them to have to sell up , move and buy new property . Sister next down from me has her three sons and families living here so she will stay here, next sister down is only five miles from town, her daughter will move out there from town should the time come, youngest sister will leave here too, either to her son in Cardiff or daughter in Plymouth, we have all discussed it and accept it cannot be all take and no give , my daughter would be frantic with worry if I was dependant on someone popping in three times a day . The thought of us splitting up is upsetting but this is how things are now.