Thank you, mcem. I too have respect for reasoned arguments and I know very well that there are well educated people who support the SNP (even some in my own family).
However I still believe that the 2014 referendum caused bitter divisions, not just in Scotland, but in the whole of the UK.
I read The Herald and The Scotsman, regarded as serious newspapers. There is constant reference to the SNP's core aim, which you describe as "indepedence" but others call "seperatism". On the whole I think the opinions expressed by the journalists and columnists on both sides of the argument are well reasoned.
However what I find quite shocking and depressing is the horrible tone of the postings on the comments pages where there is very little debate - only name calling - nats, britnats, yoons, etc. and much worse. This issue has generated such strong emotional reaction, and caused such bitter divisions that it is hard to see how our society could ever recover.
The EU referendum has been as divisive and that is certainly reflected in the tone of some posters, even on GN. Theresa May's statement that "people are coming together" does not ring true. I think both these referendums have caused untold damage and I wish I could be more optimistic about our future.