Shelagh Foggerty just now on LBC made the excellent point that people need to try to understand each others views, rather than just condemning those who disagree as ignorant, uneducated, fooled, tricked, brainwashed, left behind etc. This was following a very well expressed call by an Irish supporter of Trump (bit of a division of loyalties there for Shelagh LOL)
When one side are reluctant to say just what their views are however, while attacking those whose views they plainly dont share, reaching even mutual understanding, if not agreement, is difficult.
We are all old enough here that at least trying to understand each other should be within the wisdom we'd all like to think we have gained over the years.