At a risk of getting drawn into a disagreement about what is and is not meant by "Bucks" I used to live in the Unitary Authority of Milton Keynes (not selective) but some children living there used to sit the 11 plus in the neighbouring local authority Bucks County Council. Always seemed to me a strange arrangement but anyway... there was a LOT of coaching going on, plus a prep school or two, with some parents doing their all to get their kids into Bucks grammar schools. I knew of several families where the kids (and parents) got very stressed about this. The local area comprehensives for these children were excellent.
My friend was stressing out because she wasn't subjecting her daughter to this (while some friends were). I reassured her that the schools were very good and she was doing the right thing.
Her daughter achieved 13A* GCSEs plus an A grade in an AS level (youngest in her year too!). She also took part in lots of other activities. The kids next door used to leave the house about 7.30 to get the grammar school bus and get home about 5 in the evening.
We certainly don't need more of this kind of thing - far more children go to university these days than would ever have fitted into old-style grammar schools - a vindication of the comprehensive system if ever there was one.
Mums passed no will but possible debt
My dad spent 40 years mastering his craft, and last week someone half his age told him how to eat.😠
