She probably thinks that people are unpleasant if they keep assuming that all others are delighted about the things that they are concerned about. If there were less rhetoric, there would be more posters on the political threads.
Nonnie I read that as Elegran showing support for people (you perhaps?) who do not automatically take a stance with certain other posters. ie some posters think that 'if you're not with me you must be against me', whereas some people could be questioning, need to know more about a situation or just see things differently - but necessarily the polar opposite.
In fact, I don't think the above statement was directed at you, just an observation imo.