This is probably going to sound Gladstone-ish or preachy; I apologise. It's such an emotional subject I feel I've got to just dive in quickly. Sorry everyone.
A) No one asked anyone to wave a flag. A mature, reasoned discussion is what the original post seemed to be asking for. That's generally better and more interesting than stating one's righteousness.
B) Does anyone really believe that if (very hypothetical if I know) those weapons had been in the hands of the Japanese they would not have used them against their enemies?
I realize that doesn't answer the question. But food for thought perhaps?
All of us, including those on such high moral ground the oxygen must be a bit thin, are fortunate beyond belief that we're able to sit around and talk about this. Stating the obvious, I know, and I really am sorry.
It's so easy (I'm guilty of it) to let the comfort and security of today cushion us too much from reality past and present. We owe the people who made our lives possible many things: mainly, respect. Not just for veterans or those currently serving, but also for each other. It is possible to state your thoughts and feelings firmly without belittling people. A sound argument doesn't need to twist others' words.
I don't believe anyone on this thread is a vengeful, war-happy simpleton. I think any of us, given the choice, would prefer that children could live rather than die. This is a subject that involves real people with real memories, real feelings, real families, deserving of real respect. We need to be able to discuss it. I simply can't see the need for the implied tone of voice in so many of the posts about the fact that civilians and children were horrifically killed. We know. But those of us writing did not drop the bombs.
Oh help, this is Gladstone-ish and preachy. But I can't help thinking about what so many people went through and it's depressing to imagine it was for this.
For very free discussion, yes. To imply that someone's thoughts or feelings are heartless or connected to revenge? When the people who have expressed those opinions have done so in a very intelligent and reasonable way? It's funny that the very people who decry the bombings the most stridently have chosen such a dictatorial tone.
'We're all in it together ...' Aren't we? I thought we were. Life.
Please forgive me. I should've kept Mum.
This may seem off topic, though imo it's off-topically-connected: I'm terrified by the enforced redundancy of so many Gurkhas. Especially as IS grow more dangerous by the minute. It's like throwing lifeboats off the Titanic. To end on an unhappy note.
Or rather, not to. To - hopefully - make sure the sufferings of everyone involved in the War weren't in vain. That their children, grandchildren, and greats have a safe and decent world to live in. And that it doesn't happen again. We can go beyond pettiness. We really have to. Cheers everyone.
How should a family manage an estranged relationship?
Why on earth would anyone plant.....
Only 50% of middle age adult manage more than 1 brisk 10 min walk a month.
I repeat, we are not little teens on their social media.