Diane54 hello, I have just seen your post and although I have been lurking on n off recently I am not ready for posting at the moment, but felt I had to reply to your pos, my DH died on the 30th of July, 3 weeks tomorrow, I am in a similar situation, and am at the moment waiting for a decision as to what I will receive, I cannot have the "lump sum" of £2,000 as my DH had not enough contributions and had already started using his contributions (I am 58 he was 79) I have put in for Bereavement allowance(think it used to be called widows pension) but it is very unlikely that I will be receiving any of this, as between us we did not accumulate enough contributions, as I wasn't able to work as I cared for DH,therefore I am exepcting that I will be put on Jobseekers as soon as, and expected to go and search for work immediately! I think if you do manage to receive the Bereavement allowance then the Jobcenter will at least leave you alone for 12 months.I myself have had no income coming in for 2 weeks now and although I had a tiny bit saved that has now gone.Sorry cannot reply to you in private as your not in Blue.