Wyllow3
I'm perhaps more aware than many becuase I have an extremely disabled GD. almost no sight, learning disabled, cerebral palsy and epilepsy. She does of course go to a special school and gets transport there. The other children in the school all have extremely high levels of need and families need every bit of help they can get. Most of them will never be able to live even in a group home when they grow up.
So it does make me fed up generally when we get a series of individual stories of "how the system is exploited" without considering how desperately many do need help, when I know about all these children and the effects on the whole family life long.
Wyllow3. Your granddaughter and her parents are clearly entitled to government support and thank God it’s there for them.
However having worked in a school with young people I saw how many parents wanted statements for perfectly normal (naughty) children, they were determined their child was autistic, ADHD,ADD etc.
This was so they could get benefits and school transport.
One supposedly very autistic boy couldn’t have lunch in the dining hall because he hated crowds, he came in school one day in full Liverpool FC kit, he had apparently had a melt down when he was told he couldn’t leave home wearing it.
The boy told me he had worn the strip to a Liverpool v Man U game over the weekend, yes the boy who didn’t like crowds.