There was a very detailed will, an additional detailed letter, and funeral plan in place. He just failed to change the wording of the will after his younger brother died. He was already very poorly when his brother died suddenly. That hit him hard and he was by that time unable to cope with the detail of daily life like paying bills etc. That's when I went back to helping with his care because our only child lives overseas.
Thank you for your responses. They have helped to get things in perspective.
Do you get emotionally attached to the plants in your garden ?
Only 50% of middle age adult manage more than 1 brisk 10 min walk a month.
