Congratulations and what a wonderful place to have a wedding!
We ended the last months of 2019 on a budget due to early retirement. The most important thing we have found is to right everything down to keep track of spending. It makes us think, "Do we really need this?"
Also, we are less wasteful but more careful with heating, food, petrol etc. We also looked for alternatives to things like our SKY package and pet insurance. Going out for meals has also been curbed.
I'm sure in a year or so you will have saved enough money to at least buy your outfits and pay for your holiday expenditure.