I really feel your frustration here. Any solicitor I have had to deal with is a nightmare, missing details, not keeping in touch, speaking in legalese when they do. We are still waiting for my solicitor to sort out an admittedly complicated inheritance issue - so far it has taken four, yes, FOUR, years. Any requests for clarification or updates on progress are met with rudeness or obfuscation. No point in going to another solicitor as they would have to start all over again. We have done that once already and all that happened was we had to pay the first solicitor for doing nothing for a whole year except write unintelligible letters. So we are stuck. I find the whole situation incredibly stressful but have no alternative but to sit it out. At least it doesn't involve a house move, which must be really awful. I feel for you and hope it gets sorted soon.