My partner is very heavy handed with crockery and glassware.
When we were younger, we had white tableware from Ikea. It often got chipped and I can’t abide chipped crockery.
When we had a bit more disposable income we bought indestructible Denby. We have stuck to a colour palate of plain blues and plain creams, including ovenware and serving dishes, jugs etc, so that it coordinates. So if we have a large family gathering, people are unlikely to be served on identical plates and bowls, but everything will coordinate.
We use our Denby everyday and for special/family occasions. Our table always looks nice when it’s set, supplemented with nice table mats and coasters. I just add a vase of flowers, some candles and a silver (plate) wine cooler to enhance it, a bit for special meals.