@sassenach512 I was recalled from a mammogram 3 years ago, and like you was very anxious. I had another mammogram, and was called back in and told that I had a grade 3 cancer. I have to be honest, by this point I had resigned myself to the fact that it could be.
I did several things starting with telling all of my family I didn't need a Dr. Google opinion as the team I was under were brilliant and had all of the answers that I needed. Then, I resigned myself to the fact that everyone was doing everything that they could for me; the answered all of the questions that my husband and I asked very honestly.
I had surgery to remove the lump, and started chemo two months later. The chemo unit was brilliant, everyone was so caring and explained everything as we went along. I got told off a couple of times because I didn't tell them that the chemo was making me sick! I always believed that that was par for the course, but not these days! Now, you tell them and they give you meds before future infusions to stop it
Following chemo came radiotherapy given at a different hospital but again, so efficient and caring. I used to come out and sleep all the way home in the car.
It is easy to say, but please try to stay positve. Well done to you for going for your mammogram in the first place - if there is something needing attention then it has been found! I dread to think what could have happened in my case if I hadn't attended every mammogram I have been called for.
We are all with you all the way. You posting this here may well make someone else go for a mammogram and that's brilliant. Sending love to you