👯‍♀️ Hips and Knees part 7

Your appointment sounds horrendous charleygirl, I hope you have a relatively quiet day in which to recover.

Thank you all. 9 hours without food and water is disgraceful. Unsurprisingly I slept like a baby and am waiting for Ocado/M&S to deliver.

It is 1C here and I am cold.

Glad you have finally had your appointment and it was good news. I hope the drugs work.

Thanks for the update, Charley. As you say, mixed news, but the good sounds very good. Hope the drugs work on your other problem - sometimes it is good to be 80 plus!

You must be shattered charley. A hard day for you. Rest well.

I had 2 slices of toast at 7.30am home at 4.30pm, starving and dehydrated. Mixed news, the benign brain tumour is the "best" type one can have! Slow growing and causing few issues.

I am left with a mega problem, so the consultant neurologist has prescribed two lots of drugs, so we will see. Call me Harry was lovely. Shall we say I am glad I am 82 and not 42 and my working days are over. Lots to enjoy.

Please look after yourselves.

I phoned them this morning Charleygirl and they were great. I also asked to be put on the next course when the booking clerk phoned. 🤞

sparkle sorry I am the last person to help you as I have been nowhere in 20 years. There will be somebody with helpful advice.

nannytopsy so sorry to hear that. In the meantime, may I suggest trying to get an appointment with a hospital Occupational Therapist who will advise you raised loo seats etc

Oh bloomin’ ‘eck Nannytopsy, what a let down. Hope you get a new date soon.

Just had the phonecall to cancel me. The surgeon is unwell!

I hope all are doing well and good luck to you NannyTopsy . I am waiting for a THR and have also been told I will be discharged the same day ... shock , horror .
Have any of you lovely ladies any experience of travel insurance following your surgery . I'm hoping to fly 3 months after on a short haul flight . Any advice gratefully received .

They were so good when I had my TKR last Christmas, I am just hoping that I get time to talk to the physios. The pre op said I would be in for 24 hours plus, so not sure why there is new advice. I will find out on Friday!

Attempting to send you home on a Friday having had surgery done am is the pits. No wonder they waste so much money on lawsuits.

There is a method to pick items off the ground without assistance but it would be a crutch and not a knitting needle. I think you are better to be without the knowledge for safety.

Is your bed the correct height and your TV chair? Have you a cushion for chairs?

You will need a cushion or a pillow for the car to get home. You need to speak to somebody who can tell you the practical things.

Have you bought ready meals and placed them on a shelf you can reach or do you have the jump in the freear type? They hold more but the drawer type are easier to retrieve anything.

As you go through tomorrow, with eact act from getting out of bed, dressing, cooking etc think, how will I manage. Can I pop clothes in my washing machine- I could go on. Make a list and return to us lot. We will get you through surgery with little help from the hospital. I don't think they have the practical knowledge.

One nurse told my SiL to take up knitting and do squats to distract her from the pain and help, pre op. I would have hit her and said a few choice words

I am so fortunate to have DH who will look after me. With my knee, I had no problems but was there from early Christmas Eve until Boxing Day morning. I expected something similar. Thanks for your advice.
MayBee it depends on the size of your toilet for knees. I’m short and ours is reasonably tall, so I didn’t need one of those seats. Maybe I will need one next week?

Nannytopsy, I agree with Charley, feel faint regardless of how you actually feel. I was in one night and was fine going home but would have found it very difficult to cope if I hadn’t had help for the first three days. You will feel very tired. You will need a raised toilet seat, preferably 2 if you have a downstairs loo and at least two litter pickers because you won’t be able to bend over to pick things up off the floor. I moved everything I thought I might need for the first 6 weeks up to where I could reach it without bending but dropped things, including my crutches, with annoying frequency. A crossbody bag and a small thermos solved the problem of carrying a hot drink and UTube videos taught me how to put socks on using the towel method. You’ll also need a long handled shoehorn. Apologies if I’m telling grandma how to suck eggs but it doesn’t sound as though you’ve had much advice from the hospital.

"in my day" you would have stayed in until your sutures were removed then sent to convalescence for two weeks! Some went home, but the offer was there.

I need a hip replaced, live on my own have no relatives except in Eire and if I couldn't cope, God help anybody else.

I was fine on my own after my knee replacements but it didn't matter which way I twisted to get out of bed or a chair.

Nannytopsy do what Charley suggests and feel a little “faint” when they get you out of bed (you may not have to, it could be real!). I was going to say something along those lines but thought better of it; however, I know Charley has some medical background so go along with it!

Nannytopsy that is horrendous and as said, it is major surgery.

I would play their game and when they try to get you out of bed for the first time, feel "faint" even if you are fine. That would at least give you one night in hospital.

Have you got any help when you do go home? You can't carry even a mug of coffee if using a frame or crutches.

My appointment is in 2 days time. Being partially sighted, 82 with mobility problems was insufficient to get hospital transport, I had to answer 50 million questions why I couldn't go by public transport. which would be buses, a tube and shanks pony.

This was after the service my GP surgery uses rang to sau they had unsufficient drivers. I am not surprised so many appointments are wasted if tat is the general treatment. I can stand up for myself and I know the system or did, which helps.

How long after having a TKR would I need to use a raised toilet? One stumbling block I’ve had is that I replaced the toilet several years ago but the plumber fitted a strange shaped toilet with a seat that is not a universal size ( I’ve never been able to find a replacement seat). So I didn’t think that a raised seat would fit. But I’ve realised that I can buy a whole unit that encompasses the whole unit. What happens if I go anywhere…Will I need to use the raised seat for a long time?

Goodness, that’s mean of them Nannytopsy. I’m assuming the op will be in the morning, but it is major surgery after all. I was in for two nights. Do you have someone to look after you?Wishing you all the best anyway for the op which I’m sure will be fine. I’m afraid I have no helpful advice to offer sadly but I know others will as there’s such a wealth of experience on here.

Morning! The hospital phoned yesterday to check I was ok for the hip on Friday. Their parting shot was that their aim is to send me home the same day. As I have had no pre op advice other than “ you will be on crutches and can’t drive” from the surgeon, I am alarmed. I was relying on having a little time with the physios and occupational health to find out how to proceed.
How is it going Jax?
Did you get any joy at the hospital Charleygirl?

Thanks teabagwoman as you can probably gather I am beyond caring!

Charleygirl, I really hope your appointment goes better than you expect it to.

I agree with cornergran each dentist is different. I have had bil. TKRs and mine wouldn't see me until I got the benign brain tumour seen. That "emergency" appointment is next week because somebody decided 2 years ago I needed to be seen by ENT and not Neurology, Next week I will be told I am too old for surgery and need yet another MRI scan. I need hardly leave the house to hear that!

I was advised to have a dental checkup prior to surgery maybee and told no need for antibiotics afterwards unless prone to infections. My next appointment was a few months after TKR, no mention of antibiotics then. If you’re worried I’d discuss with both dentist and surgeon/nurse.