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👯‍♀️ Hips and Knees part 7

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silverlining48 Thu 30-Oct-25 11:55:13

All are welcome to ask questions, air worries, be supported and reassured by those of us who have experienced new hips and/ or knee surgery .
Who woukd have thought our thread would go on for so long.

silverlining48 Fri 19-Dec-25 21:47:16

Have to confess to buying another long handled shoe horn today. I think I am addicted to these useful aids. 99 p Ikea. Bargain!

Charleygirl5 Fri 19-Dec-25 14:37:40

Jax that makes it very difficult because you can't carry a coffee anywhere. I was given a sturdy two-tier trolley which acted as a frame. I was allowed to keep it afterwards, but I doubt if that would happen now.

I have a shedload of items "just in case" and for "later".

teabagwoman Fri 19-Dec-25 14:33:05

I had help for the first three days but after that I managed pretty well on my own. Mind you, thanks to this thread, I was very well prepared. It won’t be too long, Jaxjacky until you can manage with one crutch and that makes life much easier.

cornergran Fri 19-Dec-25 14:23:34

The worst will soon be over jax. Go carefully. It is major surgery and pretty brutal at that. It’s no wonder we’re sore in unexpected places post joint replacement. I’ve not needed a new hip - yet - a knee three years ago now. I recall after being home for a couple of days wondering what on earth I had done. It was all upwards after that. Mr C was referred to as the butler for a couple of weeks though!

Jaxjacky Fri 19-Dec-25 12:51:11

Crutches Charley

Charleygirl5 Fri 19-Dec-25 12:37:12

Jax I hadno choice, my attitude being I can take weight on both legs so I will be fine. That would be very different after a THR because I am well aware of what can go wrong so it is something I have put off.

I would have to pay for two weeks convalescence to be safe.

Mr J will enjoy his time off.

Are you using two crutches or two sticks to walk around the house?

Jaxjacky Fri 19-Dec-25 10:55:45

Charleygirl those who manage on their own are utter heroes, I am lucky and have arranged cover so he can play bowls tomorrow, he deserves some ‘time off’.

Charleygirl5 Fri 19-Dec-25 10:48:56

You will enjoy your first shower. My knee was also stuck together, so showering was almost one of the first things I did when I arrived home.

I bought the height-adjustable stool when I broke my ankle, and it has been a trusty friend ever since.

I haven't needed to use it for ages, but it is there if required.

Perhaps try to sit on a pillow for a short while?

You are fortunate to have Mr J in attendance. I muddled along on my own.

silverlining48 Fri 19-Dec-25 09:37:58

jax Glad things are going along ok. My wound was stuck too, much to the nurses surprise when I was called back to have ( non existent) stitches removed. The other thing they forgot to mention was was that I could shower, so I waited however many weeks until I saw the consultant who confurjed it was ok.

Having a trauma requiring a hip op is more serious than a planned op so am glad all has gone well, but like all of us, do take care not to over do things.

Jaxjacky Fri 19-Dec-25 09:32:03

Thanks all, just had nurse check up at surgery, she’s happy and unless there’s problems, doesn’t need to see me again.
Wound is stuck, not stitched or stapled, I can shower!! That’ll be later today with MrJ in attendance.
My worst problem, albeit minor, is getting a literal numb bum from sitting in this upright chair, I do get up every 45 minutes or so for a trot. Best thing, slipper socks from the hospital and mote bought, they give me confidence.

grammargran Thu 18-Dec-25 13:54:01

Don’t be an impatient patient Jax - and that’s much harder than it sounds as I know to my cost! Welcome home, and listen to the sound advice of others!

Charleygirl5 Thu 18-Dec-25 13:42:44

Many moons ago you would have been in hospital for two weeks and possibly two weeks convalescence to follow. Now you are out of the door within days.

You have done so well. Rest and enjoy your time off. There is nothing like your own bed and being able to make coffee or whatever when you want.

teabagwoman Thu 18-Dec-25 10:36:03

Glad to hear you’re home Jaxjacky. Definitely take it very steady, the fall gave your body an extra shock to cope with. Little and often is the best way to exercise in the early days and don’t expect too much of yourself.

silverlining48 Thu 18-Dec-25 09:25:55

I found sticks I was given were easier to use than crutches I already had.
Glad you are home, you need to rest a lot with a regular, but gentle exercise . Don’t rush, it is a common but major operation and it needs time.
Well done. 👍

Jaxjacky Thu 18-Dec-25 09:08:58

Morning all, home last night about 6, just, my sodium levels are low apparently, mine are always pretty low, note made to GP. MrJ just made a nurse appt for tomorrow to check dressing.
I’m sore, especially after exercising and using crutches has pulled odd muscles, I’m amazed doing small things is so tiring!

Charleygirl5 Tue 16-Dec-25 14:21:52

I agree, they didn't do Jax any favours. It has been so wet that they are extra slippery.

silverlining48 Tue 16-Dec-25 11:00:55

Beware the leaves 🍁

grammargran Tue 16-Dec-25 07:52:50

We always imagine we’re one step further than we think, teabags and you won’t do it again. Rest up now and you’ll be ready for Christmas!

teabagwoman Tue 16-Dec-25 06:35:17

I’m regretting not following my own advice and overdoing it by clearing the leaves out of the drainage gully in my front garden. In my defence the garden slopes down towards the house and the garage floods if the gully blocks up. My sil has sciatica so didn’t want to bother him. Am taking things easy now and hoping everything will settle down.

Charleygirl5 Mon 15-Dec-25 22:21:03

Not for long. As I have said before, we know our place!

silverlining48 Mon 15-Dec-25 20:35:00

And yes, we are at number 1
grin

silverlining48 Mon 15-Dec-25 20:34:04

Needs anothe4 try …

silverlining48 Mon 15-Dec-25 20:33:27

We are on our way down the list but may have to do 3 posts at a time to hit the jackpot.

Charleygirl5 Mon 15-Dec-25 18:46:21

Thought I would bump this up as we will be filed again shortly.

silverlining48 Mon 15-Dec-25 09:28:20

Indeed you would have Jazjacky.
Hope you and all going through pre or post surgery have a good day (and mind those pesky leaves 🍁 they are more dangerous than they look. My mum slipped on them years ago and broke her wrist).